You are dealing with the circumstances so graciously and courageously. Congrats on doing these check-ins, it is actually inspiring.

I hope you will both be able to look back on those videos and the planning you are doing with a sense of pride & gratitude. Turning an awful situation into one of focus & beauty.

Some day in 20 years time over the festive holidays, perhaps you’ll be able to finally watch those videos (that were not required) with the not so kiddy-kids alongside your strong wife. Proud of the people they have become. And of what she surmounted. All of you knowing full well the mountain that you all could climb and overcome together.

I imagine it has you thinking about your own legacy too. Each of us need to consider more the world we will leave behind & improve. And for that reason, I thank you for this post. Keep striding forward & sharing with us.