Love it. If I may presumptuously assume here - I think the broad principle you're using is, ask and listen to what time/place works for the other person. If you try to force the time/place/event on someone who isn't interested it won't work. But if you meet someone for lunch when/where they want to meet up its awesome. Ask people what they're interested in doing and works for them. Within reason of course, don't be an absolute doormat - just congenial. I so often find people trying to force me into shit I hate and it sucks. I'm your coffee/gun/bitcoin friend, and please don't make me go to an EDM concert at midnight when I have kids.