132 sats \ 1 reply \ @elvismercury 18 Feb \ on: I’m Engaged. meta
Congrats!
Here's my advice, which is a total cliche, but whatever:
A lot of things start out easy, and then get hard, and people are totally blindsided. They think it will always be the way it is right now, and feel annoyed and betrayed when things change. But this is as dumb as feeling betrayed when your puppy grows into a dog.
It's useful to know this because you can build the structure of your life in preparation of the harder times to come, when it's not easy; instead of depending on the ease to pull you through. Because it will stop pulling you through. And then you will either adapt or break. So why not adapt early?
Cliches are cliche for a reason!
Great advice, I’m marrying the journey just as much as the person!
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