Thank you - I have gone down a few spirals already about how would I manage the kids, the house ... We have a division of labor here and I am going to have to pick up more, but if she were gone I would have a giant struggle.

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Found out my wife has cancer. Been holding it together all day. 

I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine what I will do without my wife. Just that thought is scary. We have young kids too.

I’m glad you have this space to let yourself go to pieces and become a “basket case” because how else are you gonna stay strong if you don’t get to be 💯 vulnerable and release all this pent-up energy? I know you will pick yourself up tomorrow.

You and yours will get through this. Hugs, brother