Morgan Housel just shared this blog post called ‘A few thoughts on spending money’.
Below are a few thoughts from the article:
There are two ways to use money. One is as a tool to live a better life. The other is as a yardstick of status to measure yourself against others. Many people aspire for the former but get caught up chasing the latter.
Money is a tool you can use. But if you’re not careful, it will use you. Sometimes the stuff you spend money on has so much influence over your autonomy and sanity that it’s not clear whether you own things or the things own you.
Everyone can spend money in a way that will make them happier, but there is no universal formula on how to do it. The nice stuff that makes me happy might seem crazy to you, and vice versa. Like many things in finance, debates over what kind of lifestyle you should live are often just people with different personalities talking over each other.
How you spend money can be a reflection of what you’ve experienced in life. To someone who grew up snubbed by poverty, owning a fancy car might be the ultimate symbol of what you’ve overcome. To an old-money family, it might be the ultimate symbol of ego and insecurity. People don’t just spend money on things they find fun or useful. Their decisions often reflect the psychological wounds of their life experiences.
Spending money can buy happiness, but it’s often an indirect path. The big, nice house might make you happier, but mostly because it makes it easier to spend time with friends and family, and the friends and family are actually what are making you happy.
Unspent money buys something intangible but valuable: freedom, independence, autonomy, and control over your time. Every dollar of savings buys a claim check on the future.
Curious to hear which points stackers agree or disagree with…
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Point 2 reminds me of what my late mother used to say regarding money: Don’t be enslaved by money. I hold her words to heart.
Just wanna add on that different children in the same household can undergo the same experiences but hold drastically different attitudes towards money. My brother and I didn’t grow up in a wealthy family. That’s why I don’t really care about money. I’m all about gaining experiences for free or for minimal expenses. I’m willing to sacrifice a bit of comfort to do so. My brother, on the other hand, craves for money to buy stuff to show others that he has arrived in life. “Psychological wounds of his life experiences”, so to speak
Good read!
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