Both of these.

On the latter, we're not always able to take everything in at that teaching moment - but all is not lost. In this time we better understand a previous teaching moment and file this away until the time is right.

Days, maybe weeks, later - we find ourselves more able to offer our wisdom in a seemingly off-the-cuff way.

Life lessons, if important, needn't be rushed.

None of us are perfect. Take one's time and relax.