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388 sats \ 7 replies \ @cryotosensei 18 Jan \ on: Stacker Saloon

I’m rather proud of myself too. I’m the sort who avoids confrontation because it’s my tendency to clam up whenever I feel riled up. But today, I went up to my wife (who was scowling in the kitchen) and asked, “Are you angry with me?” That one question opened the floodgates for us to resolve things. I’m really glad that I took the first step - makes the arduous task of parenting somewhat more bearable

110 sats \ 3 replies \ @Undisciplined 18 Jan

Been there. I hope the unmarried among us can appreciate the magnitude of what you did.

28 sats \ 2 replies \ @Natalia 19 Jan

how about parenting& marriage life territory 🫡 not sure what's a better name for that.

100 sats \ 1 reply \ @Undisciplined 19 Jan

not sure what's a better name for that.

I'm not either. I'll have to mull it over. Maybe it could just be a general life advice territory.

28 sats \ 0 replies \ @Natalia 19 Jan

I would like to learn what to avoid for sure, and what's better than learning from the experienced ones. 🫡

30 sats \ 2 replies \ @Natalia 18 Jan

I like to avoid conflicts too, waste of time and hurt the mind.

Normally, I would just stay quiet for a while, then come to the person to talk - NEVER argue with anyone or make any decisions when you are angry.

0 sats \ 1 reply \ @cryotosensei 18 Jan

Usually when I’m in an angry state of mind, I will down a can of beer and go sleep asap. I believe that there’s nothing a good sleep can’t cure

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Natalia 19 Jan

I don't really get angry often now, but when I do, I turn off everything to be on my own to think. 😂