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Ditched my iphone for GrapheneOS and my $1700 MacBook for a $100 ebay laptop with Debian and nobody in my life cares.
I have been told directly from family members that they are ok with unknown companies seeing what they do online, their pics, texts and phone calls.
Have no idea how to (1) convey to them privacy is important and (2) put into words why in fact I care so much.