A lot of people have offered some great points. I definitely think that you may have over-complicated things - the only thing you REALLY need is the right woman. And you need to be the best version of yourself, to attract that woman.

You don't need a stable job, family support, financial buffers, and certainly not a paid-off house. They're nice to have (except the house - being tied down to one place complicates things in the early stages of a relationship) but certainly not necessary.