Well, I can imagine that the girl would want to stay in-touch and have their family over at our place, especially during holidays... I don't want it to turn into those typical "nobody likes anyone, but we're here because we have to" events. I really don't need that. A girl is an all-in package, as I like to say.

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On starting a family

I don't agree with the second point. IMO you're not marring the in laws. If you find the right woman, forget about the in laws.

Don't worry about not having a own house, now days is normal for a couple to chip in and pay the bills together.