I was watching an LinkedIn Learning infotainment video on my flight back. It was titled “Embracing Unexpected Change” or something like that. Something just clicked in my mind while watching it.
A decade ago, I would have hoped that I would have accumulated authentic teaching experiences in several countries. It was a dream that I took seriously because I went to take up Thai lessons, fantasising a romantic stint in the Land of A Million Smiles where everyone would fall in love with Ajarn Le.
Suffice it to say that this long-cherished dream of mine was shattered to smithereens when I became a father of one, then two. Parenting is an arduous endeavour in itself - and I’d rather not complicate matters by raising my children in a foreign land, a nation where I have yet to navigate its sociocultural norms successfully. No track record, so to speak.
Contemporary society places dreams on a pedestal because they represent potential and possibilities. They reflect how people take the bull by the horns and dare to aim for something lofty, thus exercising control of their destiny. On the other hand, goals kinda signify that we have limited the parameters of our dreamscape, that we bow down to reality and try to achieve whatever that is within our capabilities.
However, if we were to take a step back, there is nothing wrong with having goals at all - even if society deems dreams to have more of a wow factor. If I surrender my capacity to dream but work my ass off on fulfilling my goals, I am then living life to the truest of my ability.
So, with 2024, I have some financial goals, one of which is to earn enough sats as a content creator. I occasionally buy gift cards from Bitrefill and receive cashbacks in the form of sats. My goal is to amass enough cashback to redeem a Bitrefill gift card next year. This will make me feel validated as a writer. It will probably squeeze me dry and drive me nuts for the whole year, but I’m pumped by this challenge!
What are your financial goals for 2024?
That is awesome. Thanks for sharing.
“Traveling is a fool's paradise. Our first journeys discover to us the indifference of places. At home I dream that at Naples, at Rome, I can be intoxicated with beauty, and lose my sadness. I pack my trunk, embrace my friends, embark on the sea, and at last wake up in Naples, and there beside me is the stern fact, the sad self, unrelenting, identical, that I fled from. I seek the Vatican, and the palaces. I affect to be intoxicated with sights and suggestions, but I am not intoxicated. My giant goes with me wherever I go.”
― Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance: An Excerpt from Collected Essays, First Series
Now, Emerson hits hard and you def don't have to agree with this statement. But it is always how I feel when I travel. From 2020-2022 we went to the Maldives, Athens, Jamaica, Mexico. Don't get be wrong, its fun, you learn about the world, and you make memories that will last forever.
But he also mentions in a later paragraph about how modern men are scared of duty. I think about that word a lot now. What is my duty, mission or vision? Can it be accomplished by traveling all the time? For me, no. I will be that typical guy that takes one big vacation a year and I'm completely ok with that.
My duties and responsibility are growing by the day and it makes me feel powerful.
Goals:
-Sell my home and buy a way bigger home. Achieve this by getting 2.5x what I paid for it and dumping into a new smaller mortgage. Hopefully going from $380k to $280k -Continue the relentless focus on my income
Thanks for sharing Emerson’s quote with me! I never read that before, so it was good for thought for me.
What you have written reminds me of the Costa Rica phrase plan de vida, which is similar to the Japanese concept of ikigai. They both mean “life purpose” - which is something that I grapple with (maybe like you) as I grow older. What am I put on this earth for? What is my unique contribution to the world? How do I want to be remembered after my death? I agree that taking on the role of a vagabond traveller will make it harder for one to live his life purpose. Thanks for reminding me of that.
I like how you have concrete figures for your goal. $100k drop in mortgage is a hell lot. I wish you all the best!
I started a social media endeavour a few months back, I had no idea what to do, so I decided that seeing as I wash up everyday, I'd do something along those lines,
It's fluid and I've meandered between asmr, music added, fast edit, slow edits and the next thing will just naturally come to me,
I would like to monetize my channels, so, I'm told consistency is key, it really doesn't matter what you do, just keep doing it!
A lot of my viewers are from South Asia, and it got me thinking, some of those billion strong people have no access to mains water, so watching a guy wash up a pan in a creative, edited way could be quite engaging,
And I have to say, billions of people are just bored and want a distraction from the impending doom of life 🫣
So that's my financial plan to create a side income, potential passive income if the older videos get picked up in the future and keep creating the gains,
It's all about the gains 💪
Or they are stressed-out parents turning to YouTube and hoping that their child will find something appealing to give them much-needed moments of peace. Believe me. I have watched countless inane videos with my son haha
I think it’s great that you choose to take something you do every day anyway and give it an original spin. That way, you don’t have to squeeze time out of your schedule. Also you get to combine two things you do/love to create something that’s yours. Keep it up!
Yes that is key, keep it up, you see so, so many channels where a video has gone viral, so you click on their bio and last upload was 5 years ago, it is hard to just show up every day and keep doing it, that's why most people give up
May 2024 be the year in which we become rich and famous! Merry Christmas!
🥳🎉🥂🍷🍻🔥👊🙏
This is a very small and packed Personal Finance post. I'll go by your paragraphs.
When I worked for Best Buy embracing change was one of the programming techniques they used to train employees. It sounds like wisdom but it's all about dealing with the corporation moving according to the market demands. It is good advice and without goals for your personal life it is meaningless gibberish. If you have personal goals embracing change means, "Prepare for rough seas while heading to your destination."
My financial goals are to remove my fiat debt. Get rid of rent seeking services. Educate myself on Bitcoin more. Increase my skill set which always finds payment. Write here at Stacker News. Fix my shitty blog that I've ran for 25 years and have paid way to much to services that always close, fold or sell to someone else.
My financial goal is to stack sats, too! My financial goal is also to pay attention to people like you who inspire me to move ahead and work also!
I love your well-considered and thought-provoking response. It feels like a personal email reply rather than a public forum response. And what are the odds that I will encounter another Stacker who has some experience with Thai culture? I feel like maybe you are one of the few who would understand my fascination with Thai culture (and pull me back so that I don’t get embroiled into the rabbit hole 555)
I like how you equate goals with self-mastery (alongside a defiance to stop living according to societal norms and expectations). I will continue to formulate my idiosyncratic goals that make sense to me and relevance to my circumstances. Hell ya!
Will check out GOALS! Sounds like a wonderful book.
Edited: Can’t find GOALS! in my nation’s electronic library database. So I borrowed “Make more money” instead. Cheers!
This is a link to the PDF: https://www.booksfree.org/goals-by-brain-tracy-pdf-free-download/
Read online: https://archive.org/details/goalshowtogeteve0000trac
Thanks! Merry Christmas