That part must be learnt by themselves... You can't force somebody to be free, as much as you want. If you force them, the rejecting force will be stronger than that they will start investigating.

Just show them the path, and each one will choose the time when will start it. Yes, this can affect you in some way, because what is the meaning that I am the only one free if the others are still locked up in the state cages? Just to laugh of them? No.

It's a slow process and all start by changing our way of thinking.