It's not my purpose to argue about possible solutions to scale Bitcoin. I'm trying to focus on the problem of releasing software that is not properly tested. Yes my mistake was to trust the LNbank and BTCPay. If I didn't try to onboard more people into Bitcoin I would still have my bitcoins.
Regarding the victim/exploiter argument... Those who really know me know that I never stole from anyone.
Your mistake was also to trust a lightning node to be secure at all. You should consider those funds as at-risk and be prepared to lose them all at any time.
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