CLN = Core Lightning
There are 5 LN implementations (like many Bitcoin node software implementations): LND, CLN, Eclair, Immortan, Rust

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Best Lightning Node

Is quite confusing your post.
The title is about nodes, inside you ask about wallets.
Is not the same thing.

For wallets, [here I wrote a comparison guide](https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/lightning-wallets-comparison)

For nodes... depends what you want to do.
If you want to have a good routing node: use CLN
If you just want to use LN for private use, you don't need a full desktop node. Use any mobile LN nodes like Blixt, SBW, Breez, Electrum and you have more than enough.

More guides to read:
- [What software for a node to run?](https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/what-bitcoin-ln-node-software-can)
- [Getting started with Umbrel](https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/umbrel-bitcoin-ln-node)
- [Node liquidity guide](https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/node-liquidity-guide)
- [Lightning routing fees experiment](https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/lightning-routing-fees-experiment)
- [LN node maintenance](https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/lightning-node-maintenance) - more about choosing right hardware
- [Recommendation for LN users](https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/recommendations-for-ln-users)