"having kids" == the original social-security system.

With the advent of fiat money + entitlement programs, its no longer strictly necessary to have a family. This forms the basis for the collapse of the family....

This is a very good article.

Before no-fault divorce men had authority over their children.

After no-fault men have become slaves to their biology, mere indentured servants only permitted access to the fruits of their labor upon good behavior under nonbinding and unwieldy judgements of the wildly shifting winds of his children's mother's mood.

This is why separation of marriage and state is crucially necessary

absolutely, and because proof of work has been so vilified under the fiat system no one wants to work at a relationship they just want the product of it the instant gratification