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with simplex you are simply responsible for your own backups. And bigger groups are in the roadmap: https://github.com/simplex-chat/simplex-chat#roadmap
captchas on matrix? since when? never seen it on any of our instances or clients. btw I wouldn't recommend ever connecting to matrix.org, use a self hosted instance, not that hard
this is a great post btw, I agree the perfect messenger app does not exist (yet)
I would love for it to be briar due to their mesh networking feature, but the app does need more work.