Well, I use Pheonix. Blue Stacks is a program that lets you run android applications on windows, and it looks like Blue Stacks version 4 is available for Mac OS. Blue Stacks 5 for Mac OS is still in development though. https://www.bluestacks.com/
Pheonix is a lightweight self-custodial wallet, however, they do all the lightning network channel management for you so that can be a desirable and undesirable thing. Desirable because its as simple and hitting send or recieve, undesirable because maybe you want to establish your own lightning network channels and connect to nodes other than Pheonix's nodes.