I like what you say about dynamic balance. It reminds me somehow of what I learnt in high school chemistry classes: static equilibrium. Except that static equilibrium is the opposite of dynamic balance ofc

cryotosensei

Very good insight about arguing. If you can recognize this in the moment it's much easier to catch yourself and reorient to a much healthier discussion

birdeye21

What do you NOT waste time with anymore?

> How do you try to find a balance of the two?

One thing I've done in the past is begin reading fiction when I find I've stopped reading nonfiction. It tends to reenergize me to read more nonfiction. 

Most people enforce balance with inelastic rules. When Bezos would say "work-life harmony" I think that's what he was getting at. Harmony is balance but a dynamic kind of balance.

> What are you not wasting your time with anymore?

Trying to change other people's minds. 

Earnest arguing is an exhausting expression of compassion. When I find myself arguing these days, it's when:

1. I think the person's point of view/behavior is hurting them
2. The person is worthy of compassion