One of the weird side effects of caring and paying a lot of attention to people is that you can be mean by simply describing who they are because we are prone to self denial.
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lol exactly
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I agree in general. The right to refuse feedback is void in some circumstances though, eg you're in some fashion dependent on the person or they're behaving like a huge ass.
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