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Let me introduce you to one of my favorite strategies for a happier life. I call it: Borrow It.
You aren't on your own. You don't have to muster up everything that you need from within you. You can borrow it from other people — at no cost to them.
There are three ways to borrow: by watching, by listening, and by presence.
Watching: Think about someone you admire. How would they deal with the situation that you're in? Try acting like they would.
Listening: Reach out to someone and ask for their advice. Ask, "What would you do in my shoes?" or "Do you have any advice for me?"
Presence: Think about who you want next to you as you navigate this moment. Send them a message, saying "I'm struggling. Would you be there for me as I try to get through it?"
You will get so much further if you don't insist on going it alone. And you'll be so much happier along the way, too.
Lol Governments, if you feel poor, borrow someone elses money
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immediately what came to my mind also lol
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Is this a Mastercard ad
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He's living by the age-old motto: "become the reason someone thinks something is a mastercard ad".
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for me, this is what Gods role is.
I never used to be like that. I tried taking peoples advice on everything for the first 38 years of my life, instead.
I do love infographics, and find in general the idea here is:
when you need help, don't be afraid to ask for it.
i did learn a lot about the world initially by watching people do things and make mistakes, so i didn't have to make them myself, so there's that - also.
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don't think "borrowing" is the right term... understand the value provided by being aware of when asking for help, with the aim to give it back sometime in the future to someone else in need. From a natural low perspective the person giving could not n=be the same of the one receiving and vice versa.
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Nice post! You should join Nostr and replicate your content there too. If you do it, please tag me (npub in bio) so I can follow you :)
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Stackers helping stackers with their metaphorical stacks. as well
That got you a follow
On the listening front, I'd offer that SN is a pretty safe place to bounce an idea off some other people. We sort of know each other, but also don't really. It might be a low cost way of seeking some perspective, in some circumstances.
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Monkey see, monkey do.
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We all need each other! LEAN ON ME
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fiat mindset but I love the design even if it reminds me of Mastercard😂
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One day you'll wake up and realize none of those people exist in your head, and they are just your emotions. And you'll be able to reclaim all of your emotions and respect other people for what interactions you've had with them.
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