Here's the full list: www.kycnot.me

I'm active on Bisq, and although it's an absolutely epic TOR-based exchange, it's a little power-userish I'd argue. Avoid if you're a newb.

I also use Robosats the LN TOR-based DEX. It's easier. Never had a problem. You'll need a Tor browser. Here's all the tutorials for it: https://learn.robosats.com/watch/en/

I haven't used Peach but people I trust rave about it, and it's the easiest of all the platforms, because it's clearnet, has a testflight iPhone app, and good volume. Quick start guide: https://peachbitcoin.com/quick-start/

Can't speak for the rest that I have not used.