Reading between the lines, a kind of misalignment between your values and the outcomes you're getting from your environment. Hard fight!

You definitely still behaving and surrounding yourself by “orange businesses” (if not red) and fully understand your concerns. There's a way out of all that sh*t, and you can opt out any time. Like anything else in life, you will struggle, you'll suffer... but the effort will be worth the freedom you'll get in return.

Things change, mate, look forward. There are already a lot of people and communities that already "work" in what we define today as orizontal-organization, or teal-organization. I highly suggest you to reed about Reinventing Organizations.

Don't be a victim... surround yourself with people that has your same values. If you don't find them, make sure they find you!