It would be ironic to say it as someone who is an acolyte of the IKEA nesting instinct.
I love things, especially fast computers and outoor/survival/tactical gear, but instinct, or maybe being more clever than most of my past abusers, and getting cognitive dissonance over their programs, always made me wary of anyone trying to persuade me of anything. Because in my life, that's usually a red flag for "prepare to lose another piece of yourself".