Basically, the question in the title. It's not really easy to know how to contact node operators. Especially if some want to remain anonymous.
I was wondering if there could be some kind of anonymous chat for this. Maybe by a 'nostr login scheme', where an LN operator could claim a nostr address by signing a message with his node. That would allow him to claim an address. Then any user would be able to find the 'claimable' address based on a node pubkey.
The claimable address would not be that signed message directly, as that would mean that anyone has a mean of signing the same way as the node. But some other url scheme the network as a whole accepts?
Hopefully a similar thing already exists and i just don't not know about it yet?