LND is a batteries included setup and seems to be the industry standard. Has the most solid third party integration and support, lndconnect, and macaroons out of the box.

Clightning requires more finesse to setup. You have to tinker with additional plugins, rest API, and other things. But they are innovating with new stuff for BOLT12 like onion messages.

I haven't really used eclair outside of Polar App. It is next on my list to try out!