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I think, it's not something related to platforms. there are some fast web clients already. primal.net is super fast but it uses some sort of caching on servers. nostribe.com is fast too but it's still under development.
Yes those platforms are an example of what I meant by trusted relays - they use nostr but are kind of a perversion of nostr because they have high trust with a server (which could censor).
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