Run your own LN node and connect to nodes that uses low fees. As I did in this experiment https://darthcoin.substack.com/p/lightning-routing-fees-experiment

I try to have 1st, 2nd, 3rd level of peers with lowest fees possible. In that way if I had a tx with 4 hops, at least 3 of them are low fees. If a node with high fees connect with me I simply close that channel.

The goal is to FUCK THE BANKS, not to fuck each others...