That gives your spouse ammo for a "for cause" divorce, which costs you more fiat.😀

The best way to divorce is by making your partner really want it while thinking that it was their idea.

optimism

Look, maybe you're right. I don't see it as an advantage. I'm not discounting the idea that it's ALL a psy op, but I get caught up in the minutia of the moment. From that perspective, I don't see the benefit of constant alienation. I have to think a more subtle approach would be more effective.