Homeschooling used to sound like one of those optional ideas.
Something parents could chooses if they had time, confidence, or the “right personality.”
But here’s the truth we doesn’t like saying out loud:
Raising your own children well it is not optional.
And neither is taking responsibility for how their minds are shaped.
One day, your child ask a question that no worksheet can answer.
“Why do we has money?”
“Who decide what’s right and wrong?”
“Why does some people have so much, and others nothing?”
At that moment, it becomes clear: If you doesn’t answer these questions, someone else will.
And that someone don't love your child more than you do.
Parenting is not a service you outsourcing
Schools is designed to manage groups.
Parents are meant to raises humans.
A system can teaches skills. It cannot teaches values.
It can deliver information, but it cannot providing wisdom, context, or care tailored to your child.
No teacher, curriculum, or institution will ever known your child the way you do: Their fears.
Their strengths.
Their pace.
Their potential.
And no one else have a deeper stake in who they become.
So when parents says, “I doesn’t have time,” what they often means is, “I’ve been told this it isn’t my job.”
It is.
Education it is happening whether you participate or not
Children is always learning. The only question is from whom.
They learning what’s normal by watching adults. They learning what matters by what gets attention. They do learns what success looks like by what is rewarded.
If those lessons comes mainly from institutions, peers, or screens, that’s not neutral. That’s a decision—whether you means to make it or not.
Good parenting means stepping back into the center of your child’s education.
Not hovering. Not controlling. But guiding.
Home is where real learning must begin
Homeschooling it isn’t about avoiding school. It’s about owning responsibility.
Learning starts at home or it doesn’t start properly at all.
In the kitchen, children learn math and patience.
In the garden, they learn biology and responsibility.
In conversations about money—history, evolution, even Bitcoin—they learn cause and effect.
In disagreements, they learn respect and boundaries.
This is not “extra.” This is the core.
If a child only learn from books and tests, but not from life, they’ve been undereducated.
“But I’m not a teacher”
You don’t need to be.
You need to be present.
You already has taught your child how to speak. How to walk. How to behave in the world.
You taught these things without grades, bells, or formal training—because care is the greatest teaching tool.
Good parenting means refusing to hand over the most important years of a child’s mind to people who will never loves them the way you do.
This is the responsibility of parenthood
Homeschooling it is not a trend. It’s not a privilege. It’s not a rebellion.
It is parents reclaiming a duty that was quietly taken from them.
You brought this child into the world. You are responsible for who they will became.
Not the system. Not the state. Not the crowd.
You.
And that responsibility don’t end at food, shelter, or school fees.
It includes shaping how your child think, questions, values, and understands life.
That’s not an option. That’s parenting.
Children are still human. In a household of 5 children whom are all homeschooled some may succeed some may fail. The uncertainty of life can’t be mitigated 100%.
I remember how Bitcoiners’ thinking that homeschooling is a panacea for today’s ills is a pet peeve for you.
Do you have kids, Sir?
And did you homeschool them?
Not a pet peeve just looking at things in a logical perspective. Plus I think about my own experience. I went to one of the worst public schools in my metro area and yet I was able to achieve success. And the homeschooled people I have come across were normal like everyone else I have met besides the little social awkwardness I can pick up on.
But when it comes to success I think some humans want it more than others. Point blank. All the parenting, money, schooling, and religion can help mold a child but if it’s not inside you nothing can be done to change that.
Me having children or not is beside the point.
Nailed it.
I can see that you poured your heart into this writing.
How can African parents afford to homeschool their kids though, given that wages are low and jobs are hard to come by?
It comes from being passionate about your own children. Yes, wages is low—and that’s exactly why parenting becomes a heartfelt commitment, not a financial calculation. It’s not about today’s wages, but about the kind of child you chooses to raise. When your child matters most, you find ways to show up, even with very little financial return.
And what if the parents can’t read themselves?