I would add something else: some members of the obedience cult will try very hard to make responsible for all kind of things, the people that do not want to be in this obedience cult.
Learned helplessness. Its wild how many people actually want someone to tell them its not their fault and they can't do anything about it other than depend on others to fix their own problems. What a terrible way to live. The lack of any agency is wild to witness.
I would add something else: some members of the obedience cult will try very hard to make responsible for all kind of things, the people that do not want to be in this obedience cult.
Example this meme