How that's not triggering abandonment?
Because it feels really deep man. I don't think she has that with him. 

> And she's having an affair with me btw, to be clear.

Oh that's a bit different I guess. Although it's surprisingly hard to explain how.

k00b

After she withdraws my abandonment is triggered the next day.

It's an old wound. Logically it doesn't make any sense. It's how I experienced it as a child when my mother would be absent.

It's a good question. Apparently my mind is convinced she's playing my mother or something.

And she's having an affair with me btw, to be clear.

ideasfromtheedge

Abandonment Satori

bitcoingraffiti

No, I'm not jealous of her guy at all. 
After she withdraws my abandonment is triggered the next day.
It's an old wound. Logically it doesn't make any sense. It's how I experienced it as a child when my mother would be absent.

It's a good question. Apparently my mind is convinced she's playing my mother or something.

And she's having an affair with me btw, to be clear.