I am not particularly partial to the British when studying this period of history, nor do I find it would be fashionable to dwell to much on those who were. That being said, I am sure that there are many long-lost stories of exiles (many so-called "loyalists") in the wake of the American Revolution, that fled for whatever reason, whether they did not conform to the religious, ethnic or party majority.
One lesson here, to me, is that in the wake of significant world-altering political events, it is the non-conforming -- the plebs if you will -- that lose, and whose stories get all too often swept away by whatever the elitist-propaganda is most fashionable at the time. It is the age-old tale of, "history is written by the victors."
Anyway, I found this odd letter from a British loyalist living exile in New Brunswick, writing to her American brother. Posting here for posterity. For the plebs.
In 1787 Polly Dibblee wrote to her brother, William Jarvis, complaining of the plight of Loyalist exiles in New Brunswick.
Kingston, New Brunswick
[17 November 1787]
Dear Billy,
I have received your two Letters and the Trunk, and I feel the good Effects of the Clothes you sent me and my Children, and I value them to be worth more than I should have valued a thousand Pounds sterling in the year 1774. Alas, my Brother, that Providence should permit so many Evils to fall on me and my Fatherless Children — I know the sensibility of your Heart — therefore will not exaggerate in my story, lest I should contribute towards your Infelicity on my account— Since I wrote you, I have been twice burnt out, and left destitute of Food and Raiment; and in this dreary Country I know not where to find Relief — for Poverty has expelled Friendship and charity from the human Heart, and planted in its stead the Law of self-preservation – which scarcely can preserve alive the rustic Hero in this frozen Climate and barren Wilderness—
You say “that you have received accounts of the great sufferings of the Loyalists for want of Provisions, and I hope that you and your Children have not had the fate to live on Potatoes alone”— I assure you, my dear Billy, that many have been the Days since my arrival in this inhospitable Country, that I should have thought myself and Family truly happy could we have “had Potatoes alone” –but this mighty Boon was denied us!– I could have borne these Burdens of Loyalty with Fortitude had not my poor Children in doleful accents cried, Mama, why don’t you help me and give me Bread?
O gracious God, that I should live to see such times under the Protection of a British Government for whose sake we have Done and suffered every thing but that of Dying—
May you never Experience such heart piercing troubles as I have and still labour under — You may Depend on it that the Sufferings of the poor Loyalists are beyond all possible Description— The old Egyptians who required Brick without giving straw were more Merciful than to turn the Israelites into a thick Wood to gain Subsistence from an uncultivated Wilderness— Nay, the British Government allowed to the first Inhabitants of Halifax, Provisions for seven years, and have denied them to the Loyalists after two years– which proves to me that the British Rulers value Loyal Subjects less than the Refuse of the Gaols of England and America in former Days— Inhumane Treatment I suffered under the Power of American Mobs and Rebels for that Loyalty, which is now thought handsomely compensated for, by neglect and starvation— I dare not let my Friends at Stamford know of my Calamitous Situation lest it should bring down the grey Hairs of my Mother to the Grave; and besides they could not relieve me without distressing themselves should I apply– as they have been ruined by the Rebels during the War— therefore I have no other Ground to hope, but , on your Goodness and Bounty—
I wish every possible happiness may attend you, and your amiable Wife, and Child–and my Children have sense enough to know they have an Uncle Billy, and beg he will always remember them as they deserve.
I have only to add– that by your Brother Dibblee’s Death– my Miseries were rendered Compleat in this World but as God is just and Merciful my prospects in a future World are substantial and pleasing— I will therefore endeavour to live on hopes till I hear again from you— I remain in possession of a graceful Heart,
Dear Billy,
Your affectionate Sister,
Polly Dibblee1
Footnotes
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Letter from Polly Dibblee to William Jarvis, 17 November 1787, Kingston, "Loyalist Women in New Brunswick, 1783-1827," Atlantic Canada Virtual Archives, diplomatic rendition, document no. 13_41. Audit Office, series 13, bundle 41, is available at National Archives, London. ↩