Honestly Phoenix is probably the most turn-key wallet available right now, and they achieve that with centralization and trust.

Problem with phoenix is they went all in on the download and run path that leverages app stores for distribution, but in so doing lost sight of the goal of making Bitcoin (through Lightning) the default money of the internet.

I didn't get into it here but the reason Lightning is so stunted is most builders went down this path of the mobile node fantasy, and the incentives of earning sats off people who just want to tinker with it, not following the "jobs to be done" framework.

You don't run an email server on your phone, you shouldn't run a Lightning node on one either.

Bolt12 is the kind of nonsense that comes from not looking at the big picture. #1275941

Phoenix eventually started to figure this out after my trolling and launched phoenixd for servers last year.

I just recorded a pod today, when he publishes it I'll share, I get in a bit into Nostr's origins from the original ShockWallet that pre-dated it. Everyone that got into Nostr did so from the wrong angle, had they understood it's pre-history as an overlay network for Lightning to enhance self-custodial UX we'd be light years ahead.