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66 sats \ 6 replies \ @optimism 20h \ parent \ on: Stacker Saloon
What I like is that it differentiates between types of intro/extra over context, this part I guess is rather well matched.
Group brainstorming drains me and I get impatient, so I'm definitely introvert that way. But socially, being among people gives me energy, and some of the best ideas are born in just normal conversation, unforced; so I'm definitely not introvert in that scenario, at least not when compared to my friends that need recovery time after that - I'm the opposite.
This makes me actually appreciate the framework, even though it's probably still generalizing too much.
For me, it turned out that I'm not actually an introvert, I just don't like most people.
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So do you find yourself dialing down the E aspect quite a bit?
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I find it exhausting being around people who are constantly saying things that I want to correct, but know I shouldn't.
In a group of genuinely open curious people, I love having lively discussions and disagreements.
There are just way more of the first type of people, so I often end up being fairly reserved.
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Sounds like you can only let your hair down when you are with your tribe and create a conducive headspace for brainwaves to strike you
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I think the suppression of impatience is key. It must have taken me half a decade to learn to control my overt dominance in large settings, and trust people enough to steer from the smaller followup meetings, through suggestion rather than brute force. That was a very hard skill to learn.
This is for example why I have never joined the Bitcoin PR Review Club (even though I've wanted to since forever) and instead just read the logs, because I'm not sure that on IRC I could have the patience and self-control to not make a mess, I think that it's better for everyone if I'm not there.
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