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0 sats \ 2 replies \ @beyond_turbulence 13 Oct \ on: Are we surveilling on each other? mostly_harmless
Not to your friend, but to YOU.
Stop letting people hijack your blueprint.
That feeling, opinion, decision of being "policed"?
That's YOUr internal alarm system, imho—your Architect's Stamp of approval and validation seeking—screaming that someone is violating your core design. You're the architect of your own life, and you're holding a blueprint for a solid, healthy relationship. Their behavior is a Cracked Foundation.
Right now, you're operating on an "Away From" blueprint. You're so focused on reinforcing the walls against this bad behavior that you're just building a bunker, not a home.
Here’s your renovation plan:
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Pull Out Your Original Blueprint. What were your core values for this friendship? Trust? Support? Re-read your own specs.
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Establish Building Codes. Set boundaries. These aren't walls to keep people out; they're the load-bearing rules that keep the whole structure from collapsing.
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Stop Renovating a Condemned Property for $100,000 in downtown Savannah that comes with squatters and homeless people running all thru said condemned property that takes hundreds of thousands of dollars to restore to proper form or sanity. Your energy is finite. Invest it in relationships with co-creators, not officers enforcing fake signage, fiat ideals, and no tolerance for counterspeech; because free speech and property rights are two sides of the same coin. The third side? That’s the edge, essence or nuanced thin or third part of the coin. Feel it?
You're the architect. Stop letting someone else's bad design become your problem because you’re thinking like a contractor or subcontractor. Fire the bad client and build something better.
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