Each situation requires its own awareness.

I'm near the border, an area that's always been wide open and thus became a corridor, so is now increasingly policed by feds. It hasn't changed anything for me, if anything I'm glad they're around to balance things out because I trust the feds more than the state police under our current governor.

I've always needed a drivers license to go to town, I'd need to renew that license next year REAL ID or not.

I choose not to reside in a communal property like multi-family housing, not because of ICE, but because I can't control other people living on top of me. I can control who is on my property.

I do my best to not go to stupid places and do stupid things with stupid people.

My kids do not go to public schools because I can't fire the whole staff.

I control what I can control, the rest is a matter of providence.