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I like to think i am, generally, a forgiving person, in most things.

But there are red lines where, if crossed, no second chances are given - infidelity for example, maybe a classic Judas back stabbing from a friend.

Where do you stackers fall on forgiveness and second chance scale?

Absolutely!!

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No way, if a bullet is shot, it's sho. It hit right in my ass. I might forgive, but when I see that person again the wound in my ass will remind me of what they did, and I won't trust them the same as before. I mean the relationship will not be the same anymore. Forgiveness is God's job.

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Yes. But not third. Trust betrayed too often. I feel naive now.

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yeah, if a person betrays forgiveness more than once, then game over

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14 sats \ 1 reply \ @OT 12 Sep 2025

In theory yes. It can be hard to put into practice IRL.

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yeah, like the old biblical idea of turning the other cheek, extremely hard in practice

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I tend to be pretty forgiving. haven't ever really had a situation in my life where I felt that I would cut someone out and be done with them.

But I do think there are situations that require such action, especially when talking about third, fourth, seventh, or more chances.

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i am also luck in that i havnt had a situation like that, although i think sometimes, a person could kind of forgive, in theory, but also cut out .

like maybe if they were dealing with a drug addict relative etc when cutting out is best for a time etc

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Absolutely!!

"every new day is a second chance to continue building what you want for your life tomorrow".

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I think forgiving is good but I will definitely be more careful in the future. Of course depends on what happened.

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Yes I do.

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In most cases. Depends what was done.

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There might not be room for second chances if there is one life.

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