I would start first with an apology clearly if what you say is true and I think you believe what you are saying is true. You likely owe them an apology for an incident in 22 or 23 when all this started. I would start there first. At the end of the day when working in a collaborative environment a single person can disrupt everyone else’s work and throw them off sync, I’ve seen this personally at PlebLab. It’s always best try and get along as best you can or be the first to apologize especially when you know you misspoke or made a mistake. Always try to lead with humility.