I agree with you about two things, both pointing out someone is wrong not being rude, in fact I prefer if you do, so I can change what I wrote and add more accurate info. Changing your mind about things when new info comes to light is very important for learning.
Second, think you're right about hosting a relay in order to have full control, but I am coming from a mindset of selfhosting a bunch of stuff and one of those things being a single user pleroma server. Most people on the fediverse will be fine using a pleroma (or mastodon) server hosted by someone else and just changing instances if they don't like the rules, and that is fine, and I believe this applies to nostr also.
I host my own server because I like the freedom of having nobody to answer to, and to say extremely offensive or controversial things which would get me banned on other servers, if I feel like it. Basically for freedom and censorship resistance.
In my opinion, I want to eventually host my own relay, for the same reasons, for 100% freedom and censorship resistance, and because I believe in self hosting, etc.
I think one of the biggest learning curves for digital freedom in general is the need to self host, which is way out of a normal user's current habits and skill set. People need to be prepared to self host their own btcpay, website, search engine, social media, cloud, or whatever.
While there will always be people who are too lazy to pursue it and find themselves making tradeoffs, I think for humanity to utilize open source software, peer to peer networks, bitcoin or monero to set up alternative economic systems and circular economies, encrypted peer to peer communication and all these technologies we now have to become free, we need to be prepared to self host and shoulder this burden.
We have already seen what happens when you let others run things for you online, so we need to be prepared to all be willing to take responsibility for our own online presence. I know not everyone agrees, but enough people will learn to this because the alternatives are going to be social credit systems and cbdcs, surveillance, carbon limits on spending and other nasty anti freedom things.
Part of the bitcoin revolution is also selfhosting your online presence, and I think this is essential if we want it to succeed. it's a huge component to the censorship resistance aspect of bitcoin. It doesn't matter if your internet money is censorship resistant if you are banned from everything else online.
the cool thing is there are now a bunch of user friendly tools for self hosting so it is getting easier for people to do
I also agree with you in most of that, being also a firm believer about self hosting, which I have done over the years for different servers: email, TFP, web, even building my own IRC network with a few peers on four continents and a couple of servers of my own in two different countries.
I will be hosting my own relay as well, probably more than one for different reasons, being backing up of my own events and other's events I might want to also make sure I'll keep around. Nevertheless, the decentralize and permission-less nature of the protocol, unlike Mastodon and other federated systems, makes it much less critical to do it, in my opinion.
I haven't set up my own Mastodon server because I've used it very little before I was made aware of nostr and understand they are so fundamentally different that I don't really care about Mastodon or any other federated systems to even think about making the effort to set one up. If not, I probably would have done it at some point.
I also agree with you about the money, but I don't think we need Monero for anything at all. MWEB will bring a far better level of privacy and its fair share of scalability to Bitcoin, after being proven successful in LTC, as much as it happened with SegWit and LN back it the day.
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Yeah, I think I underestimated how many people will run their own servers. And over time, if not enough people run their nodes, well, people will realize and that can change.
I think the beauty of nostr is its simplicity. So self-hosting does indeed not have to be a burden. Will definitely self-host and try it out. A public and a private relay most likely.
PS: I did read the rest of your post anyway and I didn't notice anything else wrong :) Keep producing content! Education is very important and it's okay to get stuff wrong.
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Another cool thing about nostr, also, is that it can be very dynamic. Since people usually are using a bunch (or even many) different relays, some of them might be running intermittently without any real impact. You can even run your own relay on your laptop, tablet, or phone, only when you or your family/friends are connecting to it to use it, and have it off the rest of the time.
Regarding your PS: I'm not the author of the article, nor the OP of this post. I just chimed in to point out a couple of mistakes in the article, to help the OP improve it. I didn't find anything else wrong, either.
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Yeah, I replied to the OP. It's marked
You got a notification because it's a thread you also participated in
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Ah, it's true. I thought you're replying to me, because your comment showed up below mine to the same OP comment. Sorry about that.
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