Something I'm concerned about is that all these publicly-shared pubkeys is that it will make spam trivial, just like with publicly-shared email addresses. Afterall, email spam is endemic because everyone re-uses the same email address for decades.

One possible solution to avoid spam would be to have no publicly-known pubkey, but instead create a pubkey per conversation. You meet your friend IRL, you both create new keypairs, and you share the new pubkeys with each other. Your Nostr client would also need to reject messages to that pubkey that are not signed by your friend's pubkey, otherwise you would still get spammers who spew DMs at every pubkey they see. To beef up privacy, your client would use the double-ratchet algorithm from Signal to change you and your friend's pubkey after each message.

The obvious downside, though, is that this only really works when talking to your friends/family/coworkers. But if you want to accept contacts from randos (e.g. you're a journalist who wants to receive anonymous tips), the above solution won't work. I'm still thinking about how to solve this problem.

Yeah it's growing ) There are actually at least 30K profiles in the nostr network at this point.