I don't think custodial solutions should be banned all together from recommendations but they should clearly come after. It should also be made explicit that it's custodial.

Easy self custody on lightning is a solved problem and you still have people today that spread misinformation on self custodial wallets like Munn shills saying that you should be weary of Pheonix because you can only connect to ACINQ nodes. Like buddy, looks at yourself.