I can help you set it up, hit me up in Telegram. My username is the same

cameri

I'm in the process of setting up the recommended server in this guide. Here is the address, but it isn't quite working yet: wss://nostr.nymsrelay.com/

I'm not sure why it isn't working yet, and am still troubleshooting.

nostr

Set up a Nostr Relay server in under 5 minutes [quickest getting started guide]

andreneves

I'm in the process of setting up the recommended server in this guide. Here is the address, but it isn't quite working yet: wss://nostr.nymsrelay.com/

I'm not sure why it isn't working yet, and am still troubleshooting.