Based on her descriptions, I started out as "the man with a plan" who became "the man who is whole" when I started to understand my own desires and limitations.

It's an interesting piece, and quite obvious that people are struggling to define gender roles within a philosophy that tries to erase gender differences. It's why Matt Walsh's question, "What is a woman?" is so powerful. According to our nature, we understand that there are differences between men and women. Our culture does everything it can to erase those differences, but you can't erase nature. Hence, the amount of ink getting spilled on these topics from almost every angle.