I appreciate the concern but maintain my position that you shouldn’t marry someone that you have serious concerns about. 

Undisciplined

This isn't about trusting your partner then, this is about you trusting youself to be a better judge of character than your friends. 

Or maybe you know they're ultimately at fault for their behavior in the relationship, and you're not confident that your less of a loser than they are.

Either way, it's an inward problem.


justin_shocknet

bitcoin

Did you have a prenup when you married?

anon

that's what I used to think too, but two of my friends ended up in a bad divorce last year and almost financially ruin.