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very, very comfortable with it. it's like statistics, you cannot win all the time, failure in some form is 100% inevitable.
as long as you don't make it about your ego, you learn lessons.
Failure is also kind of a matter of framing too. When you approach women, most will reject, when you play sports, you will win some and lose some; when you lift weights, the iron will keep you honest, when you start a business, there will be failure.
Here's a failure I had yesterday, a recruiter wanted to put me in for a well-paid remote job that was 100% match for my skills. Decade of experience in the exact field, tons of references, portfolio etc
The client didn't even want to talk to me because the fact that I have been self-employed for a decade made them uncomfortable. Now, anyone can tell you, it's a lot harder to be self-employed than be an office worker who collects a salary no matter what, and clocks in and out.
So in a way, we can say I have failed - failed to secure more income for sat stacking, but on the other hand, I would say the potential employer failed because they have no idea what they missed out on!
Sounds like the client wants someone compliant and who will listen to instructions and maintain the status quo rather than an independent individual who can bring good things to the table. It’s their loss!
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It's possible, i've seen the same thing before. I don't know why these people think if you hire a freelancer, it's going to be some wild maverick that won't do as their told. Probably the opposite, spec out the job and i'll get on with it.
People need to be more pragmatic and ask 'can this person do the job, can they be an asset to my business?'
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