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Yesterday, the neighbor who lives right across the street from our apartment (a man in his 70s) came to bring us some candy for the children. We invited him in, and we ended up chatting for a while. At first, we shared part of our story: how we left Cuba, the journey we took to get here to Brazil, the challenges, the changes, the beginnings.
But then it was his turn to tell. And what an incredible story he had. It turns out he was a key figure in the automation and modernization process of several banks here in southern Brazil, especially Banco Itaú. Before that, he had managed operations in the control towers at Guarulhos Airport. All of this is thanks to the training he received at a military school, which also explains why, despite his age, he remains in excellent physical and mental shape, goes for a run early every day, and goes to the gym several days a week (which left me a little embarrassed).
As I spoke, I couldn't help but think of my grandfather (now deceased) and the many stories he also used to tell. Unfortunately, as the son of elderly parents, I didn't have much time to enjoy my grandparents. But yesterday was like having a little piece of them again.
Talking with the elderly is a special experience. Not only because of the wisdom they've accumulated, but because of the way their stories connect the past with our present. It's always a privilege to spend time with them.
173 sats \ 3 replies \ @k00b 11h
It's something I wish I did more.
I talked to my uncle-in-law a few weeks ago. He finally told me the story of his brother who lived most of his life on a sailboat in the Caribbean after selling his early internet company that my uncle called "The Bridge."
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That must have been an incredible story. Not everyone has the courage to do that. What's his life like these days? Does he still live on the boat?
You know, for someone who's lived his entire life on an island, I've never been on a boat, not even one of those little wooden ones.
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23 sats \ 1 reply \ @k00b 11h
He developed Parkinsons, and while he wanted to die at sea, his family forced him to give up sailboat living. He lived out there for decades.
You know, for someone who's lived his entire life on an island, I've never been on a boat, not even one of those little wooden ones.
Really? You'll have to change that soon!
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How sad... although I'm sure he must have many stories.
Really? You'll have to change that soon!
This part is going to be difficult. Now here in Brazil, I'm surrounded by land, hahaha.
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23 sats \ 1 reply \ @grayruby 10h
I talk to my parents all the time.
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When I was in Cuba, after work, I always liked to go to my parents' house for a coffee and check in on them.
Now that we're far away, we keep up to date via WhatsApp.
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23 sats \ 1 reply \ @LibertasBR 9h
I confess that I don't have much patience, many end up lying a lot or repeating themselves frequently.. But, it's interesting to learn about these stories, since much of our current environment stems from their actions in the past—both good and bad.
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As you said, their stories (no matter how simple or repetitive they may seem) are connected to everything we take for granted today. I think with a little patience, we can learn much more than we imagine. Listening to them is like reading a history book...
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23 sats \ 1 reply \ @carter 11h
I had dinner with my grandma for the first time in a long time... We are planning on making it a more regular thing but are gonna need to plan out some safer topics to discuss
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Surely if you make it more common, she will thank you, and you will have a great time.
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So you got to talk to a former Empire Storm Trooper.
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Hahaha...not really. According to what he told me, he was only active in the military for two years, and he was always in the communications department, but always working in other places as an "inserted" soldier.
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So...Empire Storm Trooper!
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Mmm....I really don't know and I don't know much, I'm going to ask him anyway, and I'm sure a very interesting conversation will come out.
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He´s talking about Star Wars soldiers of Empire
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fucking shitty translator.....hahahahaha makes one look like an idiot.....hahahaha
The in-person view into the past is incredible. Oral history is very special
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without a doubt...!!
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