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Maybe some of you have attended one of these events or maybe even had one for your child, and if not, you've at least seen a video on the internet. From the first time I saw it, it seemed like a strange idea. I immediately thought, what would happen if the gender of the future child wasn't what the parents expected? And well, from then on, I constantly see videos where literally either the mom/dad or both throw a tantrum because it wasn't what they expected. What's the point of throwing a party, inviting dozens of people, spending a fortune on food and decorations? All for them to end up throwing a tantrum. In my opinion, if you're not going to accept your child as they are, then what's the point of doing this?
I use this video as an example of the reactions I am referring to:
A parody I got:
Is that even real or is it just outrage porn material? I don't trust the authenticity of anything on the internet these days.
Personally i've never been to a gender reveal party and I think it's a bit of a silly idea, but not something I'd rebel against as long as people stay classy and don't go overboard with it.
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30 sats \ 0 replies \ @bief57 OP 9h
Bad parental reactions are real. I've seen videos of everything from simple celebrations to the most ostentatious.
also some very strange ones
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21 sats \ 1 reply \ @Aardvark 10h
Recording your shitty reaction dor your future children to see their parents disappointment....
Classy...
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Yes, I find it horrible. What will the children say in the future? Thanks, I love you too?
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Stupid behavior. I’m glad I had my children before this trend started.
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And it is even more stupid to go into debt to hold a "celebration" of this kind.
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I think these events are silly. I don't want to go. But some people like them. I don't care what others do.
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I think exactly the same
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21 sats \ 1 reply \ @carter 9h
When I was born the doctor told my parents "10 fingers, 10 toes and a tallywhacker"
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More than enough. They saved themselves all that waste.
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Not the point of this video, but how does it work exactly? Your doctor writes the gender on a piece of paper, and you give it to the company selling the gender reveal stuff so that they put the right color for the confetti?
When I had my kid, I was just happy to share the event with close family. No gift list, baby shower, etc... I hated it when random friends thought of making themselves the center of attention for the fact that they were going to have a kid.
Anyhow, to each their own~~
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @nichro 4h
I think a small thing like a box or a champagne bottle that shoots a color-coded thing when popped is fine.
But all those extravagant elaborate reveals are just objectively tacky af. Or as the whippersnappers would say: cringe
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0 sats \ 1 reply \ @aljaz 5h
If I had a friend that invited me to a gender reveal party I'd have one less friend
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this
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Akg10s3 6h
Thanks for your post!! It's very interesting and a topic worth considering!
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stackers have outlawed this. turn on wild west mode in your /settings to see outlawed content.