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59 sats \ 2 replies \ @k00b OP 22 Jun \ parent \ on: being an enabler mostly_harmless
~lol i was concerned about people thinking i was obliquely talking about sn (i'm not). i was going to post it anon but doing that in ~mostly_harmless would cost 42k sats.
No, I don't think so. I came to grips with being an enabler awhile ago and learned to set boundaries, but I never tried to figure out why I kept doing it.
You must really be enabling people, if you weren't talking about Stacker News.
I'll adjust my statement accordingly. The set of people who will stick with you without the cookie jar is non-empty.
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i was concerned about people thinking i was obliquely talking about sn (i'm not)
Now I just hope you’re not talking about downzaps specifically.
but doing that in ~mostly_harmless would cost 42k sats.
It sounds like @elvismercury has a really good handle on setting boundaries.
Seriously, thanks, great observation! Hopefully, whatever situation inspired this post gets resolved soon (unless it actually is downzaps, I’ll fight tooth and nail for the opportunity to abuse that privilege).
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