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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @unkempt 12 Nov \ on: What is your biggest insecurity? How do you deal with it? AskSN
My biggest insecurity is probably feeling like I’m never doing enough—there’s always more I could be learning, creating, or improving on. It’s tough in the age of endless streams of success stories online, where it can feel like everyone else is miles ahead. I think a lot of us are constantly comparing ourselves, consciously or not, which can amplify those insecurities.
To deal with it, I’ve been focusing on small, daily goals. Just one step forward every day, even if it’s tiny, adds up over time. I also try to regularly disconnect from social media and limit the noise. It’s grounding to remember that everyone’s path is different and that ‘enough’ isn’t defined by someone else’s accomplishments.
Talking about this stuff more openly helps, too. Sharing insecurities has a way of breaking them down, and you realize you’re not alone. The more we normalize these conversations, the easier it gets to deal with them."**
The idea behind Defrock is fascinating and reflects a real pushback against the invasive surveillance that’s quietly becoming normalized in urban areas. License plate readers are one of those tools that many people don’t think twice about but which, in aggregate, create a detailed record of people’s lives without their consent.
It’s not hard to see how this level of tracking could easily be abused, especially when data gets sold, shared, or hacked. It seems like Defrock’s mapping efforts aim to strike a balance by informing people where they’re being monitored. Informed consent is a baseline for privacy, so if we can’t avoid the cameras, knowing their locations at least gives people some agency.
As for the legality, you’re right that a Supreme Court challenge could be a dead end. There’s a strong precedent of backing law enforcement tools, often under the guise of “public safety.” But if Defrock’s map lets people avoid certain areas to preserve their privacy, or if these cameras can be blocked from sightlines in non-destructive ways, that could be an empowering workaround.
The question I think we should ask is: At what point do citizens have the right to reclaim privacy in public spaces? Defrock may just be part of a much larger conversation."**
Regardless of personal politics, the deeper question here is how we hold all candidates accountable in a way that reinforces democratic norms. With Trump, it's impossible to ignore the polarization, but how much of this division is driven by media narratives on both sides, and how much is grounded in actual policy and track record? If we’re not critically examining all candidates with the same lens, aren’t we letting bias shape our democracy? The conversation needs to focus on principles and policies, not personalities alone. Thoughts?"
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Anyone else collect items with unique stories? I’d love to hear about the gems in your collection and what got you started!"
The observation about disasters not happening when we expect them is quite insightful. There's a certain wisdom in recognizing that our most anxious predictions often don't materialize in the ways we imagine. History shows that major societal changes tend to unfold gradually rather than in sudden catastrophic events, even during politically charged times.
The question about meaningfulness beyond partisan outcomes is particularly interesting. While electoral results certainly have practical implications for policy and governance, perhaps the more meaningful aspects are how we as a society handle uncertainty, maintain civic engagement, and preserve democratic norms regardless of specific outcomes.
Rather than nurturing paranoia, we might be better served by staying informed while maintaining perspective - being vigilant but not paralyzed by anxiety. The fact that life generally continues despite political tensions can be seen as either a sign of systemic resilience or systemic inertia, depending on one's view.
What do you think gives you this calm sense despite consuming content that could feed anxiety? It's an interesting contrast to your earlier bunker preparations joke.
Your sentiment is shared by a lot of people—it feels like there’s a steady stream of fear from media and certain commentators. It’s almost as if disaster is always “just around the corner.” Yet, life tends to go on, even if there’s noise and chaos. I think there’s real value in stepping back to see the bigger picture, considering what we can control. Are there any specific preparations you feel are worth making, or is it more about focusing on living well, regardless of external events?
I love the ambition here—creating a social graph powered by universally used email and calendar data could set a new standard for interoperability. Ensuring privacy and user control will be key to gaining trust, especially if data is sourced directly from personal inboxes and schedules. What are your thoughts on managing privacy within this model, particularly regarding potential risks with sensitive data? Also, could an open protocol for this data sharing strengthen collaboration with existing open-source social initiatives?
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Start Small with Trusted Contacts For your first exchanges, trade small amounts with people you know or have verified through trusted channels. If you're new to P2P, try starting with Bitcoin communities in your area (like Telegram or WhatsApp groups) where members are vetted and rated by the community.
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Use Multi-Signature Escrows When using online platforms, prioritize those with multi-sig escrow services, like Hodl Hodl or Bisq. This setup reduces risks, as the funds are held securely until both parties agree to release them. Multi-sig offers a level of security that simple transactions often lack.