A home should be your safe haven, where you find peace after dealing with the chaos outside, a secure place where you find calm and feel content and happy.
But... what if your biggest battlefield is your home?
How do you live with the constant stress of simply speaking making you feel like you're walking through a minefield?
Looking, saying what you think, asking for a favor can become an atomic bomb.
Relationships aren't perfect; nobody will agree on everything 100%, but there are limits, and once they're crossed, there's no going back.
A shout, a rude remark, a derogatory comment, when respect is lost, everything is lost. Respect is the foundation of any relationship, and without it, coexistence is impossible.
How do you solve a problem if the only response you get is:
"You're putting words in my mouth that I didn't say," "You're making them up," "That's not how it happened," "Where did you get that from?", "You're crazy," "You exaggerate everything," "Here we go again," "Don't say anything to me, I don't want to hear you."
Or simply ignore what happened for 30 minutes and then act as if nothing happened, the shouting and swearing never existed and of course there will be no apology.
Apologies filled with hypocrisy are unpleasant; it is assumed that when you apologize you do so from regret and knowing in your heart that you will not do it again, but asking for forgiveness and doing the same thing over and over again is one of the most false actions that exist.
After experiencing those things, in my opinion, there is only one solution, and that is to end any relationship.